IT STILL HURTS

As my evening came to an end my mind had another set of questions that were required to be answered as soon as possible..these questions were not new to me but today when i heard them from someone else ,i thought there have to be some answers for these questions ,some logic behind those answers.."WHY PEOPLE CHANGE"..and most importantly "HOW PEOPLE CHANGE" ??good times r forgotten so easily,memories r erased in blink of an eye,replacements r made in seconds..I STILL DONT KNOW HOW PEOPLE DO THIS ?? when it happened to me i thought may b it was just my bad luck,but now when i c it happening continuosly in my life or for that matter in lives of people all around me i wonder what causes these changes..dont people think before acting like this ??..dont they know how much it hurts ?? why suddenly they stop caring for other's feelings.. ?? or is it ,that, all this builds over a certain period of time and for all this time they move faking around..?? how they suddenly start labelling LOVE as just mere attraction ??why they suddenly start thinking that concern has taken form of over possesiveness?? how calls change to messages to miss calls and then to simply ignorance?? why own priorities suddenly become more important.. ?? why they suddenly start running away from us ?? why they suddenly start mentioning all the weak links in the relation ??all these questions just simply give my mind,my soul an unressistable shock !! its not that I didn’t tried before to find the answers but what i got in return was a simple excuse - "TIME"..everyone seemed to fit their reasons in the so called time frame..facts after facts were put forward to me to prove that time changes it all..but i never accepted it..i knew its not the lack of time that puts the relationship in a bad state,its the lack of consistency in dedication to the relationship..but even after i landed on this little conclusion i found those behaviour very much alien to my nature..because i know one thing no one becomes a bad soul ,in eyes of the other person,with his own happiness..but are the distances created by time so impossible to handle ?? some people admit that they know they are doing wrong but they cant stop themselves from doing it ..but this is no excuse.. even if u cant love someone in return , do respect their love.. but where does that respect goes in adverse situations ??when u r on the edge and the relation is just being dragged on ,trust me its very tough !! its painful !! and it hurts !! and believe me.. " IT STILL HURTS "